Don't marry : or, Advice on how, when and who to marry

A practical guide from the late‑19th century, this work offers straightforward counsel to anyone weighing the step into marriage. Written in a conversational style, it lists common pitfalls—marrying for looks, wealth, youth, or fleeting whims—and urges readers to consider timing, character, and genuine affection before committing.

Interwoven with the checklist are two illustrative anecdotes drawn from real‑life experiences, showing how hasty or ill‑matched unions can lead to lasting discord. The author balances humor with earnest warning, covering everything from temperamental partners to mismatched expectations, and encourages thoughtful reflection rather than outright avoidance of marriage. Listeners will come away with a clearer sense of the questions to ask themselves and their families before saying “I do.