How to Get Married, Although a Woman; or, The Art of Pleasing Men

A candid, turn‑of‑the‑century guide treats the desire for marriage as a natural, even divine, longing for women. Written in a straightforward, moral voice, it argues that a woman’s fulfillment comes from finding a husband and creating a home, while warning of the loneliness that can follow a life without a partner. The author frames the advice as a public service, hoping to reduce the number of “old maids” by offering clear expectations for courtship.

The book combines practical tips—how to present oneself, nurture a favorable reputation, and understand a man’s wishes—with broader reflections on society’s view of unmarried women. It offers reassurance that a devoted, well‑kept household is a respectable goal, and it gently challenges readers to consider whether true contentment lies in partnership. Listeners will find a window into the domestic ideals and gender norms of the 1890s, presented with earnest conviction and a touch of humor.