
A witty, turn‑of‑the‑century sketch, this work opens with a lively confession about the author’s childhood habit of over‑spicing ginger‑snaps, setting a tone that blends domestic charm with sharp social commentary. The narrator takes us into the glittering world of dinner parties, where silver, china, and elaborate dress mask a relentless choreography of conversation, wine, and polite pretence. With a keen eye for the absurdities of etiquette, she dissects the rituals that turn hospitality into a performative marathon, noting how both men and women become actors in a staged banquet.
Through humor and keen observation, the piece reveals the quiet frustrations of a hostess caught between personal desire and societal expectation. As the evening unfolds, the narrator’s inner monologue exposes the subtle power games behind smiles, gloved hands, and forced small talk, inviting listeners to recognize the timeless dance between appearance and authenticity in social gatherings.
Language
en
Duration
~7 hours (413K characters)
Publisher of text edition
Project Gutenberg
Credits
Produced by sp1nd, Matthew Wheaton and the Online Distributed Proofreading Team at http://www.pgdp.net (This file was produced from images generously made available by The Internet Archive)
Release date
2012-08-14
Rights
Public domain in the USA.

1811–1872
A witty, outspoken 19th-century columnist, this pioneering American writer turned everyday struggles into sharp, lively prose. Her work helped make women’s voices impossible to ignore in newspapers and popular fiction.
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